A simple procedural reminder first gentlemen. Please remember when you phone,
to leave your Name and Client Code on the message so you'll get a call back and not
ignored. Over the weekend (Friday-Monday) we reviewed the HUGE list of missed calls
and we do mean HUGE, but only one guy followed the instructions and everyone else did
not. Unfortunately, they were ignored and he was the only one that was taken care of....
did I mention that is was a HUGE list when I checked the numbers against our
database Tuesday? The problem for you? I receive an incredible volume of ding-a-lings
phoning in from the phone numbers listed on the Escort Reviews that totally
ignore the RED BOX on everyones profiles that plainly states that we Require Pre-screening....
I did say an INCREDIBLE NUMBER didn't I? Literally thousands Per Week. If you think 12
is a huge number you must be referring to a penis size.
12 here is a slow HOUR...
They know better, they just want to try it anyway
and see if they'll be the exception to the requirements. Meaning: They are a piece
of shit and they think that You and I are pieces of shit too! They obviously aren't in
our social demographics, have NO HONOR and they are NOT the professional gentlemen
that we've chosen to do business with. And will not. I log that number into the database
under "D.N.S.", meaning "Do Not Service" so if he ever does come back and apply he will be
denied anyway because he's one of those personality types that doesn't belong with YOU
guys. He doesn't deserve the opportunity and cannot be trusted with YOUR SAFETY.
Huh?? What?
"He cannot be trusted with Your safety". Think about it for a moment, please.
We are on the verge of constructing and releasing the SAFEST, Elite, Predictable,
Honorable escort community-EVER-one that every single person who is a member has
been Verified to be completely legitimate and Safe. Has Character and Honor, has shown
themselves to be Trustworthy enough for inclusion into an
Elite-Private-Escort-Community
of like minded professional men and women, providors and clients alike mind you,
(and free to you!) and these butt-heads get offended that we REFUSE to do business with
them. Big Ego. They get offended because we appear inflexible and they cannot
grasp or comprehend the concept of doing business with honor, that
Your Word is Everything and our Intentions are Useless in Business.
Your history is the ONLY measure of honor and thats how we screen everyone,
based upon your history, integrity and psychological mind set. I'm pretty good at it.
Maybe the best in the world today and my staff is right
there with me. It IS NOT about your social standing or bank account
or OPINION of yourself.
We ONLY work with FACTS here. RESULTS.
Now please, think about it once again in this light because a write up similar to
this one will be posted on the escort community website in some form so everyone
that applies will know Exactly what the criteria for membership is. If Your
Word Is No Good-YOU'RE NO GOOD. No grey area. Very simple and black and white.
Intentions are only meaningful to You.
You Guys and Gals have spent your entire lives being GOOD PEOPLE,
building the foundation for good lives, becoming good, trustworthy
folks, and have probably enjoyed the rewards for it and have also probably
been somewhat punished for it in the business by con artists more than once
and you know that you didn't deserve that. It's what makes escort reviews so
popular after all. What should I expect? But as we all know,
our mileage varies tremendously and reviews simply do not make the
important things obvious about providors OR clients.
Providors often get burned as well.
^---That's MY deal here and what we're after.
A Real Community of Clients and Providors representing various backgrounds,
social classes, varying economic and sociological histories BUT consistently Good
People. Their word is reliable and their character unquestionable.
US and THEM. "Truth, Can ONLY be Proven by RESULTS".
<--That is our measuring stick for accepting you and you only get one chance here.
Don't bother pleading. Come back in a year when you grow up.
This isn't the place for second chances and its fair that way because
it takes into consideration that a mistake is only that, a mistake,
but a fuckup is ALWAYS A FUCKUP and you Will Not Be A member if You Are A
Fuckup. You must be CONSISTENT to be TRUSTWORTHY. Obviously that rules out those
with drug problems, alcohol challenges, mental/emotional instability, prescription drug
problems for "anxiety bullshit" or jailbirds.... those people have already established
their standards for life, have abused the most basic freedoms that we are born with
and obviously have no real character at this juncture of their lives and therefor
cannot be trusted with YOUR SAFETY. They only pollute the
good and do not serve the greater good of all of us.
Selfish, self-centered, narcissistic-self serving people NEVER serve the
needs of their community. "They will be known by their works".
If it was only a matter of "is that guy a cop or that girl or agency going to deliver"
then the Reviews or References would suffice. Obviously it doesn't support high
standards for You or for US and it does not tell you if they are WORTHY,
working with someone that they shouldn't...etc, I have memberships at EVERY
"verified community" under more than a few different names-
both as a providor AND as a hobbyist and I'll be the first to tell you that its so
easy to manipulate and to beat that its a VERY dangerous
precept to base your safety upon. I will not. And I cannot when other people
are dependent upon me to have their best interests at heart-consistently-every time.
Even on "bad days".
I ONLY use providor references as a measure of a Clients usual Standards,
NEVER as the deciding factor for acceptance. The providors MUST FAX a
copy of their drivers license to me before they'll be considered and I do a
comprehensive background check on them as well. Even more than on you guys.
Because of the nature of the business I absolutely must. This is a business that
attracts the greatest number of people with the Least amount of character that desire to
make the Most amount of money with the Least Amount of Character-or Effort
required. With the least amount of accountability too. So "normal" considerations
will not suffice. Many of them come from abusive backgrounds, drug abuse, spouse,
spoiled daddy girls/boys, broken homes, poor role models, drug
dealing piece of shit boyfriends, lazy "stripper boyfriends" out for an
easy buck and worse. You Guys as clients are among some of the WORST ENABLERS
too! As a man its just about always our first instinct to be empathetic or
sympathetic-when we like them-and convince ourselves that they are "victims"
or just a little misunderstood or simply made a few mistakes
and need a helping hand and we want to help them.
And its all a crock of SHIT!
They aren't "Victims," only Volunteers and these are NOT healthy
people gentlemen. "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" ya know
and On Average-they almost ALWAYS go right back into that nonsense
that they ran away from. And where you helped direct them right back
to again- the end.....
you're as guilty as they are for the bad.
Becoming an escort is an excellent tool for validation for these knuckleheads
that refuse to take responsibility for their bullshit lives, for everything in it,
all that they contributed to and everything that their poor mental
health was attracted to and continues to seek out and You Guys/Gals enable that
nonsense sometimes with the best of intentions and sometimes with the worst.
Like trying to "save" them for example. You are either delusional yourself with the
best of intentions OR selfish and want to KEEP them to yourself.
SICK...?
Save them from what? Themselves? YOU CAN'T. No one can.
This is my experience after 20 years of continuous sobriety,
after 26 years in the business, with a genius IQ, poverty and wealth, sober
and not, State to State and Country to Country
that I've worked in with THOUSANDS of men and women from all over
the world in every little nook and cranny of the planet.
You Cannot Save someone from themselves,
you shouldn't try, its more enabling. You cannot control them
or convince them to "want better for themselves" or anything else.
They Do It or they Do Not. Simple as fucking that.
DON'T waste effort "falling in love with potential...". You lose.
Being a pathetic sugardaddy (not the same as a sexual arrangement for gratuity)
or paying their fucking bills is only postponing they inevitable and worse-YOU
and people Like You are Contributing to their demise even worse.
Either they want it badly enough to take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for their bullshit
and every single thing in it that they have touched
and make it right with the world they've screwed over- or they
are CONNING you. At that juncture it probably means that you aren't
the picture of mental health either pal and You're probably the guy that
ONLY uses independent escorts because an escort agency won't tolerate
your dumb stalker ass. You cant be trusted-your judgment is BAD.
"Captain save a Hoe". Oh yeah, that means that you really aren't going to
be a member here either, doesn't it?
COMPASSION, GOOD INTENTIONS or Lonely doesn't
make you a stalker pal ....or possessive. Or Obsessive.
This has been a public service reminder that FANTASYS has Your Best
Interest at Heart Ladies and Gentlemen. We love having you as clients and
peers and look forward to the years to come as we continue to "give back" to the
business that has been so good to us with this great thing that we're all building here.
Thank you all for coming, thank you all for contributing and Happy Holidays,
it is an honor to serve you!
M@Fantasys!~
